Thursday, June 19, 2008

Sometimes, You Get What You Pay For


Excerpted from Marriage Ain't Prozac by Susan Jane Gilman in "Single State of the Union -- Single Women Speak Out on Life, Love and the Pursuit of Happiness" edited by Diane Mapes:

Thanks to our culture, many of us view marriage through a mindset of scarcity. We're told that if we don't "hurry up" and "find" a husband, all the "good ones" will be "taken." So our search for a partner becomes like hunting for a Prada blouse during a one-day sale at Neiman-Marcus. We race to the store, tear through the racks like maniacs, looking for something that "fits," and hope that we'll beat the other shoppers to the best bargain before closing time. The fact that we have to choose one outfit to wear every single day for the rest of our lives just makes us even more insane.

2 comments:

Samantha C. said...

Great book and great blog! I absolutely love it! Keep up the great post Helen!

Tracy S. said...

I really agree with this - it is an easy mindset to fall into and hard to get out of! I have to constantly remind myself that each man I have 1 date with is NOT "the last man standing" - but when I remember that it's much easier to have an honest perspective about whether I actually like the guy or not, and to act rationally -